Dealing With Rejection

Most writers who are serious about becoming published have more than most likely come across stories of rejection and are well aware of the fact that it's all but a near guaranteed certainty, so this post will be nothing new. But still, despite all that's been heard or read, many writers are still paralyzed by just the mere thought of being rejected.
 
Well, as everybody knows, in this industry, rejection isn't personal. And a lot of it has to do with who you submit your manuscript to, also. You're not going to make a lot of headway sending your fantasy novel to a publisher that only publishes books that deal with religion, or psychology, etc., etc... I was picked up after about a month of submitting because after sending my manuscript to all of the commercial publishers (which you should always attempt) which subsequently rejected me, I decided to go through the books that dealt with my subject matter and find out who published them. I then submitted my book to those publishers, and, fortunately, the first publisher I sent it to, and the publisher I truly wanted, wanted me back. I've written another blog that deals with submitting your story to the right publishing house, so I won't reiterate here (Attempting To Get Published)
 
It used to be that the large commercial publishing houses sought out talent and gave new authors a chance. Now they only risk it if you've been published before and maintained decent sales. Because of that, your best bet is submitting to a small publishing house, or even self-publishing. You don't receive the amenities with self-publication, such as proofreading, typesetting, books in print, marketing, etc., but regardless, that door is open for you so there is hope of getting your work out there if you've been turned away too many times.
 
The small publishing houses are not a guarantee either, however. In many cases a lot of success deals with how professional and "clean" your manuscript is when you send it. First and foremost, you really ought to have proper spelling and punctuation down. And what you submit should flow nicely and lack confusion. A lot of publishing houses receive sloppy, messy manuscripts. How can they take you seriously if that’s how you propose your work? So, REJECTION!
 
Always check out the publisher's website and find out exactly what they expect in the manuscript; do they want the entire book? Do they want only a few sample chapters (in which case choose the most inspiring and sensational chapters)? Do they want a synopsis included? Knowing all of these details and following the proper procedure can reduce your chances of being rejected.
 
But, as I’ve mentioned, I’ve already posted a blog about how to increase your chances in signing a contract with a publisher.
 
The rejection thing…Everybody always says it, and it’s nothing but the truth: You have to keep trying! I am the sort of person who does not want to deal with criticism and will avoid it if it serves no purpose for me. But I’ve always wanted to be a writer and in order to get there I knew I was going to have to swallow that jagged little pill and learn to deal with rejection—and I did. So you need to decide which is more important—your pride, or doing whatever it takes to make your dream or goal come true.
 
There are several stories out there that deal with successful authors being rejected constantly. J.K. Rowling was rejected many times over before being picked up, and she only received a contract by the grace of God when the editor's daughter picked up her manuscript, began reading, and enjoyed it. If J.K. Rowling had quit, I think everyone can agree things would be quite different for her.
 
The biggest thing here to remember, if you’re truly serious about and believe in your work: Fight for it! In fact, being rejected and going back for more is just a testament to how very serious you are. I was looking forward to fighting for my book, to be honest.
 
Please, please, please don’t become discouraged. To be a published author is to have a voice in this world, and it’s an accomplishment that many, many people wish they could complete but never do. Writing is hard work, and writing an entire novel is a huge effort. If you go through all of that trouble only to give up because one person out there isn’t in to your story then you’re foolish. When you submit that manuscript, and when it is read (if it is read), it is subject to that individual’s taste. And not everybody can recognize talent or importance right off the bat. Perhaps it doesn't speak to them. It doesn't mean the next publisher won't be excited over your story. Every industry is rife with tales of those who were not appreciated for their work “at the time”, and certainly the publishing industry is no different.
 
 

 

Dealing With Rejection

Most writers who are serious about becoming published have more than most likely come across stories of rejection and are well aware of the fact that it's all but a near guaranteed certainty, so this post will be nothing new. But still, despite all that's been heard or read, many writers are still paralyzed by just the mere thought of being rejected.
 
Well, as everybody knows, in this industry, rejection isn't personal. And a lot of it has to do with who you submit your manuscript to, also. You're not going to make a lot of headway sending your fantasy novel to a publisher that only publishes books that deal with religion, or psychology, etc., etc... I was picked up after about a month of submitting because after sending my manuscript to all of the commercial publishers (which you should always attempt) which subsequently rejected me, I decided to go through the books that dealt with my subject matter and find out who published them. I then submitted my book to those publishers, and, fortunately, the first publisher I sent it to, and the publisher I truly wanted, wanted me back. I've written another blog that deals with submitting your story to the right publishing house, so I won't reiterate here (Attempting To Get Published)
 
It used to be that the large commercial publishing houses sought out talent and gave new authors a chance. Now they only risk it if you've been published before and maintained decent sales. Because of that, your best bet is submitting to a small publishing house, or even self-publishing. You don't receive the amenities with self-publication, such as proofreading, typesetting, books in print, marketing, etc., but regardless, that door is open for you so there is hope of getting your work out there if you've been turned away too many times.
 
The small publishing houses are not a guarantee either, however. In many cases a lot of success deals with how professional and "clean" your manuscript is when you send it. First and foremost, you really ought to have proper spelling and punctuation down. And what you submit should flow nicely and lack confusion. A lot of publishing houses receive sloppy, messy manuscripts. How can they take you seriously if that’s how you propose your work? So, REJECTION!
 
Always check out the publisher's website and find out exactly what they expect in the manuscript; do they want the entire book? Do they want only a few sample chapters (in which case choose the most inspiring and sensational chapters)? Do they want a synopsis included? Knowing all of these details and following the proper procedure can reduce your chances of being rejected.
 
But, as I’ve mentioned, I’ve already posted a blog about how to increase your chances in signing a contract with a publisher.
 
The rejection thing…Everybody always says it, and it’s nothing but the truth: You have to keep trying! I am the sort of person who does not want to deal with criticism and will avoid it if it serves no purpose for me. But I’ve always wanted to be a writer and in order to get there I knew I was going to have to swallow that jagged little pill and learn to deal with rejection—and I did. So you need to decide which is more important—your pride, or doing whatever it takes to make your dream or goal come true.
 
There are several stories out there that deal with successful authors being rejected constantly. J.K. Rowling was rejected many times over before being picked up, and she only received a contract by the grace of God when the editor's daughter picked up her manuscript, began reading, and enjoyed it. If J.K. Rowling had quit, I think everyone can agree things would be quite different for her.
 
The biggest thing here to remember, if you’re truly serious about and believe in your work: Fight for it! In fact, being rejected and going back for more is just a testament to how very serious you are. I was looking forward to fighting for my book, to be honest.
 
Please, please, please don’t become discouraged. To be a published author is to have a voice in this world, and it’s an accomplishment that many, many people wish they could complete but never do. Writing is hard work, and writing an entire novel is a huge effort. If you go through all of that trouble only to give up because one person out there isn’t in to your story then you’re foolish. When you submit that manuscript, and when it is read (if it is read), it is subject to that individual’s taste. And not everybody can recognize talent or importance right off the bat. Perhaps it doesn't speak to them. It doesn't mean the next publisher won't be excited over your story. Every industry is rife with tales of those who were not appreciated for their work “at the time”, and certainly the publishing industry is no different.
 
 

 

Why You Should Write About What You Know

Because writing a novel is hard work! When you finally take the plunge and explore the frontier that is writing, make sure, at least for your first book, that you write about something you're very familiar with! That is the first rule of writing: Write what you know!!!

And in this event, since it's something you know, you'll be able to fill in the gaps between research with your own point of view in the meantime. Not to mention that you'll be taken seriously since you'll know the material you're writing about frontwards and backwards. Your readers will take you seriously.

And for your first book writing a topic you're familiar with will help get you through your first idea of what it is/means to write a book. The first time you tread the deep waters of writing a book can be daunting, so the last thing you need is to do so with a topic you don't know much about--it will only add to the frustration when it's time to search out a publisher, and provided you're lucky enough to find a publisher to back your novel, it will also add to the frustration of proofreading your work. You'll find that you're checking and double-checking your material to make sure it's right (that is if you care enough about it and don't want to look like an idiot to your readers). So...take the pressure off and write what you know!!

Read this article as it explains that just because you should write what you know, it doesn't mean you are limited to the areas of your mind. You can use your creativity parameters.

http://www.writing-world.com/fiction/know.shtml

And in addition to writing what you know means you'll have a better chance of a publisher choosing you to bring in to their fold. It's much easier to write about something you're familiar with or passionate about. Writing about something you have to learn about means a lot of starts and stops as you read through and learn the materials.

Why You Should Write About What You Know

Because writing a novel is hard work! When you finally take the plunge and explore the frontier that is writing, make sure, at least for your first book, that you write about something you're very familiar with! That is the first rule of writing: Write what you know!!!

And in this event, since it's something you know, you'll be able to fill in the gaps between research with your own point of view in the meantime. Not to mention that you'll be taken seriously since you'll know the material you're writing about frontwards and backwards. Your readers will take you seriously.

And for your first book writing a topic you're familiar with will help get you through your first idea of what it is/means to write a book. The first time you tread the deep waters of writing a book can be daunting, so the last thing you need is to do so with a topic you don't know much about--it will only add to the frustration when it's time to search out a publisher, and provided you're lucky enough to find a publisher to back your novel, it will also add to the frustration of proofreading your work. You'll find that you're checking and double-checking your material to make sure it's right (that is if you care enough about it and don't want to look like an idiot to your readers). So...take the pressure off and write what you know!!

Read this article as it explains that just because you should write what you know, it doesn't mean you are limited to the areas of your mind. You can use your creativity parameters.

http://www.writing-world.com/fiction/know.shtml

And in addition to writing what you know means you'll have a better chance of a publisher choosing you to bring in to their fold. It's much easier to write about something you're familiar with or passionate about. Writing about something you have to learn about means a lot of starts and stops as you read through and learn the materials.

How To Handle Manuscript Submissions

When you are finally done that manuscript and are ready to submit it to a publisher, things can seem quite confusing. Because of this, I've already submitted a post in my blog that states both the difficulties and the ways to navigate this particular endeavor (Attempting To Get Published).

Before submitting my manuscript to a publisher back in January 2013, I had joined Harper Collins' website (Authonomy.com) as an extra effort to make sure I would be submitting the best manuscript I could. The site is excellent in the sense that many aspiring authors (as well as seasoned authors) post their manuscripts for critiquing amongst their peers. It is the equivalent of a writer's group, only with the added benefit of convenience by being held online, and in the event that your book is a good one, one has a good chance of having it rise through the ranks simply based on word of mouth. If your novel is good enough, other aspiring authors will place it on their shelves to be read, and so-on-and-forth. It will get around. And finally, if that is the case, if your book makes it into the top 5 and finally to the coveted No. 1 spot, Harper Collins will consider that manuscript for publishing.

The downside, however, is this...The aspiring writers who are critiquing your work are amateurs, just like yourself, provided you are a 1st time author. What do they know? Well, truthfully, if they are avid readers such as myself, they can in fact offer quite a bit to help one improve upon their writing. However, that said, they are still not professional editors and cannot take the place of one.

Now I am not going to get in to how to find a publisher as, like I've said, that information can be found within my first post. But for those of you who are still in the thought process in regards to writing a book, I may be able to add a little something else...

When I wrote my book about Billy the Kid, I initially began it as a biography. Well...I quickly abandoned that approach as there are already TONS of biographies out there.

One of the most important rules of writing is to write what you know, especially if it is your first novel. Well, I knew all about Billy backwards and forwards--No problem. So, because I chose to abandon the biography as they are a dime a dozen, I decided that if I were going to take the time to write this novel I was going to write it so that it had the potential of possibly bringing in a fair income. Will that happen? I can't say. I can tell you, however, That Billy the Kid sells!  Unfortunately, obscure topics are often much more difficult for readers to locate. Basically, I'm praying/hoping that my book will be granted the same fortune as all of the other books that reveal the life of William H. Bonney. And as I had mentioned previously in my blog as well, I did not write this book in an orthodox manner. I wrote it through the eyes of a fictitious, young wealthy socialite from the east who had been sent to New Mexico to marry Billy's employer and owner of the land Billy and the other hired-hands worked

The reason I told you ALL of this information just to get to the part where I discuss the publisher is this:

I wrote about Billy the Kid, therefore, I checked out the very same publishers who publish books on him and other western literature. My first choice was Sunstone Press, the very same publisher who publishes the books on the accepted, undisputed authority on Billy the Kid, Frederick Nolan. When Sunstone Press accepted my book (very quickly I might add), I was so very, unbelievably excited! I was going to be published alongside the very man whose books taught me about my subject, not to mention the man who is undisputed to be the expert on Billy the Kid.

My novel is an epic length (130,000 words) which is difficult for a first time author to get published. Remember, publishers want to make money, and to do this they need to spend money on you in order to get your book out there in addition to running marketing campaigns, etc., etc...

As a 1st time author on their payroll, you must remember that you are at their mercy--don't argue! Of course you may voice your concerns and opinions, but don't be a pain in the ass; don't make them sorry they administered a contract to you.

The option of self-publishing is a wonderful ability now, but before you decide to turn to that, try seeking out a publisher first!

Now, I was nervous! Under Sunstone Press's website (Sunstone Press) they have several groups of genres. They have Outlaws, which most of you ought to know that is what Billy was considered and is found under that category. They had a genre marked strictly for cowboys, which of course Billy the Kid is found under as well. However, Billy has his own genre--Click on "Billy the Kid" and it takes you to all of the books they sell/published on the infamous, notorious outlaw. This had me extremely anxious! But no matter, I submitted my manuscript nonetheless because if you want to be a writer you have to ignore the personal roadblocks and go for it. You have to leave the fright far behind!

Upon receiving a letter from the publisher (which could have only meant good news as compared to receiving back your full manuscript) I was thrilled!

And not only did I receive the letter, but within the letter, sent directly from my editor, he  told me that I "obviously knew what I was talking about." Reading those words gave me a heady feeling and I only wish it for each and every one of you who are trying to get your foot in the door in the publishing community!

Now that I've mentioned that last bit yet again, as I've discussed it in my first post, please remember that you must submit your manuscript to a publisher that deals with your genre. For example, you do not want to send a horror or thriller story to a publisher that strictly prints books on gardening! This is where researching your publishers come in, and that being said, be prepared to be rejected more than once! But don't lose heart! A true writer who believes in their brainchild will not give up!

Now, that being said, be sure you spend the $35 dollars to copyright your precious work!!! Take no chances!

A publisher/editor doesn't want to see a sloppy submission, so go to the site of the publishing house you want to submit to and be sure to find out what they require in forms of submissions; usually one example chapter, an Author's Bio, a Marketing Plan, Brief Synopsis, and in my case, a movie treatment in the event it is sold to Hollywood. And please remember that the last thing you want to do is come off cocky in your submission! You should certainly appear confident, but watch your tone! Remember...you are humble as a new author--a publisher/editor holds your future or literary happiness in their hands, so respect that.

For some extra help, go to the Literary Market Place to research publishers.

I have been writing since I was six years old, and now I'm in on how it all works. It used to seem so hard, difficult, and confusing, and certainly submitting a manuscript was not as easy as it is today!

One of the MAJOR rules to consider is to make sure your writing is clear and that you've edited your work before submitting it. No editor/publisher wants anything to do with a potential author who doesn't bother to even submit the necessary work right.

And remember to please, please, please come to any one of us published authors with questions. We're all only too happy to help :o)